Why is it as women we tend to tear one another down when we should be lifting each other up?
You are beautiful. For a million reasons. Maybe you have a smile that lights up a room. Maybe you have great hair, a great figure, cute ears or a button nose. Why can't it be those things that we focus on in each other and ourselves instead of the 'flaws'?
So here is my suggestion--- as you walk past someone--- be it a friend, a coworker, an acquaintance or even a foe, and you notice something about them that you like... say something. I did it just this morning without thinking about it. I mentioned to my coworker that she looks really cute today and he face lit up. She has been walking around the office with her head held high and maybe doing a bit of a sashay. Atta girl! Rock what you got!
The important part is that you mean it. Faking it just won't do. People see through that. But when you do notice, make a point to lift her up. Breaking each other down isn't working. For any of us. Be a positive force and in turn you get to feel good about making someone else feel good. It's a win/win!
To say something so simple, to make such a tiny gesture and make someone's day? THAT is power.
Be powerful. Make someone's day. Do. It. Now.